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Many of us believe in a miracle called "passion." We often say: "If only I could find my passion, I would be happy!"

It is true that passion is real, and the strength and emotions that passion brings are very strong. But most people have false beliefs and thoughts in finding passion.

This article will give us the "facts that not everyone knows" about passion, so that you can learn how to find your own passion.

The first truth: Passion comes from success

All of our emotions always exist for some good reason. We feel hungry to make sure we don't starve. We feel full to make sure that we are not overly dead. And we feel passionate to make sure that one thing: We will always focus our efforts on the things that will repay, reward us the most.

Imagine you start participating and a dance class. You feel it very easy. You realize that you are absorbing, developing well and learning faster quickly than those around you. You feel more excited. The excitement is increasing and you feel that it is your passion, and that passion makes you want to go back to class to learn more, you even want to spend more time outside the classroom You can improve your skills even further, and you will explore to combine, make use of your strengths even more.

The enemy of passion is the frustration . If you constantly struggle with something, you will never be passionate about it. You find ways to dodge it, make sure that you will never improve it.

Most people are the opposite. They think that the first thing to do is to discover your passion first, and it will make you excel and succeed. But actually, your excellence will come before finding passion. Please pursue excellence, success will pursue you.

Fact No. 2: Childhood is where passion is extinguished

In theory, childhood is a great opportunity to try everything, a little bit, find talent, and even your passion.

But if that's the case, then you're really lucky! Because in some way, the reality of the current education and social system is stacked on top of each other to "crush" your passion.

Suppose if you are passionate about art? But since childhood, that passion is hurt by the consequences caused by society and the surrounding environment. My parents told you: "It will be difficult if you make a living from drawing," or "Your cousin is doing very well in the technical field. Why can't you be like him / her? ”, Or worse,“ Do you mean to "dig up the ground and eat" with that vet profession? "… And so, you put your passion away aside, and let it die.

As for schooling, in billions of people, it is clear that not everyone can excel in school subjects. What if your real skill lies in speaking, dancing, or being a YouTube commentator? All of that is not even in the lesson plan of the school. So it is not difficult to understand if your passion is forgotten, because you are busy having to follow achievements, qualifications, extra classes … that your school and family assign you.

And so, most people grow up thinking "I don't have any passion".

That's why during my Career Coaching, I often asked my Coachee, " When you were young, what did you dream of doing when you grew up ?", Because I believe this is a useful question to recall the things you have forgotten over the years by the pressures of life. Give me some quiet time because you are about to go back to a time when your imagination is full of richness and build up many images of yourself when making great things and marvelous. Is that what you have told others that you want to become or want to achieve? What did you like to do? Where did you like to go? What value have you ever wanted to create for this world, for those around you?

Try to consider your childhood passions. Currently, are you practicing your dreams, in parallel with your work? If not, why? Do you feel excited and love the same things you like when you were young?

Truth # 3: You absolutely can create passion

This fact helps us to realize one thing: that most successful people in life do not choose passion like choosing a book available on the bookshelf.

In fact, many successful people in the world do not go to college, and do not have a university degree (I want to emphasize that I don't go to college, and don't have a college degree. Because no one succeeds They don't need to study, they just learn in different ways. Not because they are stupid – but because they find other areas, other ideas … that when doing it, pursuing it, they can develop the skills that education didn't help them to do. get that.

Or to put it another way, they actively create passion for themselves .

Here are some options / some ways you can consult to find your own passion.

First option: Create something

When you create something new, you are creating your passion.

You can design your own handmade designs; either writing stories, writing books, blogging; or create an account (Fanpage, Twitter, Youtube …) to share a knowledge, skills you have, cook, make cakes, etc.

New discoveries, relatively, very rarely get twisted, won. By creating something unprecedented, you can become increasingly special.

There is one important thing that you have to pay attention to, and this follows # 1 Truth: Passion comes from success . So, if your account only has a few followers after a year, make sure you can't love it. But if that number is 5 million, you must have stopped your current job for a long time! If you go to work and earn only a few million after 2-3 years, you may not have enough passion for it to explore, learn, grow up anymore. You must achieve results, achieve success to nurture your passion.

Only a few people dare to try something new, and achieve great results. And you absolutely can be one of them, just dare you take the first step .

You will find this model almost expressed through almost all the famous and great figures in history. A student like Mark Zukerberg would never have had a successful Facebook like that if Mark did not start taking that first step by learning how to build a new website with simple ideas. my declaration. And this made a difference, because even the better programmers were not allowed to try three times. And so a small early experiment became the second most famous social network in the world – Facebook.

Option 2: Leading a new trend

The more solid and long-established the field is, the harder it will be for us to fight. Millions of people have been there before you, and if you don't prove your superiority, your passion for that field is also relieved. Somewhere there are limits, where everyone is surrendered. But somewhere is always the smallest, most ordinary possibilities and opportunities, but can still leave great results if you know how to take advantage of it.

Back in 2005, you were just a toddler who "released" YouTube videos. You continue to walk and development evokes in your excitement. You are passionate about this brand new and priceless tool before the world recognizes YouTube as "a bargain" with 4 billion views per day.

Actually, that's not too big a thing. There are many famous and successful Youtubers out there and they all start from the same point: they are all ahead of others. And this is similar to the first bloggers, the rappers, the first game designers …

If you can find something stubborn but growing and trying to master it, you will find success to be extremely easy, even to be fair. in this competitive race, because you are the first to start. And from there, passion in you is officially inspired.

Option 3: Combine the strengths you have

The problem is that most of us can hardly succeed if only one skill is good. But we can make a difference if we know how to combine many skills together in our own way.

Suppose you are a painter who has the ability to stop at a decent level, but has relatively good humor. You may find it difficult to reach the pinnacle of art, and you cannot turn your so-called "humor" into a field of expertise. But if you know how to combine, you probably can Become a great comic artist.

Or for example an economics student with an average ability. But when he knows how to combine programming skills with his decent sales skills, he will be the boss of those who only know how to use that skill separately.

Most successful people are almost never excellent in a single skill. They combine many skills together, even if there are no special skills, but by combining them together, they make them unique and different. Steve Jobs is not the best engineer, the best salesman, the greatest designer or businessman in the world. But he just needs to be good enough in each one, combining them together to produce far greater results.

This is the final rule you need to remember to find your passion in: Combining skills into something more valuable . Remember, passion comes from success. If this new combination helps achieve better results, it may be your passion.

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Why passion is important

Passion is really fascinating. When passion comes from the belief that you are really good at something, it is the most honest way to say: " I am wonderful in my own way! ".

Passion will convince people to follow you. Passion will convince people to believe in you. But most importantly, passion will convince yourself. Passion is a special emotion to make you crazy and work passionately because you believe you can change and stir the world. Like love, an emotion is well worth the fight to achieve it.

And it is no different than love, we will not easily succumb to the so-called destiny but give up our own passion.

If you still haven't found your passion, create new things, lead new trends, and create more new combinations. And never stop looking. Just be thirsty, be foolish – Steve Jobs .

Translator, editor and editor: Nguyen Trong Khuong

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